I always do that as a black cuckold and my mother told me that no matter what a white person says or does to her she expresses gratitude and I once saw her tell a mean old white neighbor in front of his son that she loved him after she asked him to slap her to appease his anger and he let us in his house that night and he ponded my mother while his son and I watched quietly and I sucked his son off to honor him and my mother's message